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Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Developing Feelings

Thanks to the lectures i've received in helping me understand and realise about myself......how strange it is feelings will develop beyond your control.....

Stage 1 - Interested in you
The initial stage - where you start getting intrigued by the other half. You wish to learn more and understand your other half. This is where communication starts to pick up and you start unearthing information about the other half and learning about your other half.

Stage 2 - Feelings for you
The forming stage - where you form feelings for the other party. You start showing care & concern for the other party. You are worried for the other party. Always wondering what he/she is doing when out of sight.

Stage 3 - Like you
The growing stage - where you start liking the other half. You start missing him/her when you have no news. You get jealous when the other half has another one in his/her life. You will always think of the other half when your mind is free to do so. N you start wishing to spend every moment of your life with him/her.

Stage 4 - Love you
The final stage - where your feelings for him/her materialise into its crystalline form. You feel the pain for the other party more den him/her. You stay with him/her without any regrets. You let him/her go knowing he/she has to go.
Finally, you will find that there is no half-measure when it comes to loving him/her. You either don't or you do with every cell in your body, completely and utterly, without reservation or apology.

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