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Thursday, August 21, 2008

Giving & Receiving Traffic

I remembered telling Luzhi about the traffic theory for all relationships, be it friendship or love.

Traffic for relationship is a two-way traffic, you need to give the other party; similarly, you need to receive from the other party. For example, you can initiate a conversation with the other party all the time. If they do not strike one with you, soon, you will feel depleted. This is becoz you will feel unappreciated.

A man's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.

So, a big thanks to Shikin. For MSN me. Usually, I'm the one who had to take the initiative to give traffic to other colleagues. Juz a simple MSN asking if I need her moral support was touching and gave me traffic...Thanks!!!

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